The downside to being socially switched on…all the time

The cyber world and the advancements in technology have resulted in many changes to the way we connect with others. Whilst many of the changes have meant greater ease and access to our connections, we know too, that our kids are susceptible to some of the downfalls. One of which, I believe, is the need to be ‘switched on’ socially……all the time.

With a vast majority of our kids’ socialising occurring online via social networks, it would seem that this constant contact allows for very little downtime. Very little time to ‘not care’ what they are doing or saying, who they are hanging out with, or what they are listening to or watching. [Read more...]

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Rights and Responsibilities Online: Safer Internet Day 2013

Its been a few years now since the internet waltzed into our lounge rooms and more recently into our pockets.  Nearly 20 years in fact (wow, that makes me feel old). I think it is fair to say it’s influence on our daily lives has evolved at lightning speed. It is this online world where we seek information, we seek entertainment and we seek connection. It is no longer however, just about researching, shopping, banking, booking flights and diagnosing our own ailments. Now we are meeting, reconnecting, dating, and in constant contact with friends as Social Networking Sites begin to take on face to face interaction.

Despite the challenges and potential dangers of life online, it really is a great time to live. The internet provides us with so many opportunities for work, for support, for connecting and for learning. But just as the offline world  bequeaths us certain rights and responsibilities, so too must the online world. If much of our living and the living of our kids is to be done online, it is imperative that we as parents help to ensure our kids have both of these under control.

The United Nations outlines some basic human rights that should be afforded every child. Whilst we know this is way too often not the case, theoretically, every child has the right to knowledge, to protection, to participation, to justice, to education and to health.  These rights must extend to life online. [Read more...]

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Parenting with Technology: Top posts of 2012

This post is dedicated to the most popular cybersafety and parenting with technology posts of 2012.

This is an area of parenting that is increasingly challenging parents as we are constantly faced with the all encompassing nature of the online world. As our children grow and develop amongst this new world, we as parents are making constant changes and adaptations to parent accordingly. We need to keep up with the changes, we need to make an attempt to understand their challenges, and we need to help each other be aware of the pitfalls they may encounter

 

So in case you missed them, here are some of the more popular ‘parenting with technology’ posts of 2012.

Thanks for reading and I hope to have many more posts for you as the technology changes, new challenges arise and we learn to support ,educate and guide ourselves and our kids through this dynamic new world.

Oh and please let me know if there is something specific you would like to see covered!

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A Summary of Social Networking Sites and Settings for Parents: how to keep kids safe

Every day there seems to be a new app, social media site or forum for our kids to ‘hangout’ online.  Last week I talked about the control our kids have over their content on Facebook and how the default and custom settings determine this information sharing.  Here I will have a look at a few more sites that our kids are using and some of the settings that can help make them  a safer ‘hangout’.  Again I will stress that it will be very difficult to keep up with every app and site our kids are using and keep tabs on their privacy settings and such, however if we can have some idea, it certainly helps with the teaching of skills that they will need to safely ‘play’ online.

Instagram

How it Works

This seems to be a popular one for people of all ages. Instagram is basically a photo sharing app available on an ipod touch/ipads and smart phones. [Read more...]

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Facebook for Parents: Understanding Control

Our kids use of social media as a way to connect with their friends, make new friends and unfortunately connect with others who are neither their friends nor need ever to be. For parents, trying to keep up with all the different social media platforms can be frustrating and difficult to say the least. But that doesn’t mean that as a parent we cant try to do our best to understand the way some of the networking sites work in order to help teach our kids the skills they need to safely and responsibly take part in online interactions.

Here I am going to have a closer look at Facebook and how much control our children and indeed ourselves, have over the content that is displayed. There are many different sites kids are using and I will look at some of those sites in future posts.  Many have different rules about who sees what content, whether there are friends or followers, private or public sharing and how much control the account owner has over what is displayed. [Read more...]

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