5 ways to a more organised and stress free household

As the new year gets into full swing,  the holidays come to an end, little ones start out at playgroups, kindergarten, schools or high school (or in my case all of the above), we start thinking about the organised and smooth sailing ship we are going to steer out of the somewhat bumpy and treacherous conditions of years or months gone by.

I have recently had quite a few emails asking me how I manage to stay organised, remain appear in control and fit everything in, whist keeping a busy household of 7 ticking along.

Firstly let me say, it is not always organised (teachers reading this will know I have lost the odd excursion notice or forgotten the time of a training session) and I am not always completely calm and in control (my kids will vouch for this).  I do think however, to get through many of the things I set out for myself, time and experience have taught me a thing or two about keeping it all moving along with minimal stress.

To help remind myself, and to help any of you a little apprehensive about how to tackle the year ahead, I have outlined some of the things I attempt to do regularly to ensure a greater chance of remaining sane and relatively calm whilst still achieving all some of what I need.

Morning Walk/Exercise

Luckily for me, I am able to get up early before the rest of the house and go on a quick walk before my husband leaves for work. This is the time I go over in my head what needs to be accomplished that day and the order I will do it all in (obviously this needs to be flexible however, as things often change at the last minute….kids needs to be picked up from school with a bump to the head, one falls asleep just when you were going to do the groceries etc). Trying to get some form of exercise at any time however is important not just for physical health but for a bit of ‘me’ time too. [Read more...]

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Morning Routines and fitting in a healthy breakfast with BelVita

This week I have been taking part in a BelVita Breakfast challenge to help me find more energy and today I am making sure I will always have time for a healthy start to the day.

How do your morning routines go? Are you flat chat trying to get out of the house? Do you head for the car then go back for the excursion slip you were going to sign last night, discover you don’t have the right change, then about turn to check if you turned off the iron, grab your phone you left on the charger and sit down in the car, engine poised ready to go, then smell that distinct smell that ensures another 5 minute delay as you unstrap the baby, race inside again and return with fresh baby bottom via the laundry to quickly put the washing on so it will be ready for you to hang out on your return?

Amongst all that, somewhere you were supposed to fit in a good healthy and hearty breakfast to keep your energy levels high enough to last you through the mornings activities. That is often one of the first things that is sacrificed by busy parents as they try to marshal the troops. And unfortunately it is the most important  meal of the day. [Read more...]

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This weeks best parenting advice: breathe, flex and keep moving

Parenting advice is everywhere, some of it helpful and some of it not so much.
The best advice is often that which aims to improve the mental health of the parent, either in the short or long term! If this is somewhat well in tact then the functioning of a family is generally on a fairly even keel. (I say ‘somewhat’, ‘generally’, and ‘fairly’ with emphasis, so don’t hold me to this)

With that in mind, one of the greatest pieces of advice I think I will give to any new parent is to be flexible! There are so many skills, strategies and support systems that you need to effectively run a household and rear a family, but no amount of strategizing will help you cope with the flap and tizz that ensues from a down to the second plan gone astray. All the expert knowledge in the world will count for nothing if one doesn’t have an adaptability and agility to change direction at the last minute. A simple bowel movement, a fall in the mud or a bump on the head can ensure the most thought out plan goes belly up and threatens to derail the most organized of operators. [Read more...]

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Technology, time limits and getting it right for our kids

Do your kids get angry when you ask them to get off the computer, turn off the xbox, give someone else a turn of the Wii or put the ipod away?

Last week I was guest posting over at Planning with Kids about 8 things parents should know about technology and parenting. Many of the comments pointed toward a frustration by parents over the amount of time kids were online and the trouble they had in enforcing rules regarding the use of technology. Or overuse more to the point!

Here are a few pointers to help you take back control and help ensure your kids have a greater chance of being able to regulate their own behavior and time management as they grow up surrounded by the distractions of technology.

Start early  From the moment your little one can swipe an ipad make sure they know there are limits to its use. We want to be able to take things away without a fight every time.  And whilst you will more than likely get one the first few times you interrupt their extremely important, almost at my highest score game, they will learn. Like all aspects of parenting, the earlier you start getting them used to the boundaries, the greater control you will both have over their behaviour. [Read more...]

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What are you doing for your kids that they could be doing for themselves?

What are you doing for your kids that they could be doing for themselves? This is a question I have been asking myself with a lot more regularity lately. Mainly because I am a little more tired than usual and suffering a few bouts of ‘can’t be bothered’ syndrome. (oh and I’m just coming out the other side of the first trimester of another pregnancy)! To put a positive spin on ordering my kids around a lot more, I figured that there were probably a lot of tasks I was performing that my kids were perfectly capable of undertaking themselves, and thus I was denying them the right to a pathway of greater freedom and independence. Happy to sell it any way I can! [Read more...]

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